Getting the love you want: a guide for couples

The unconscious partnership

Love, lost and found

Childhood wounds

Your imago

Romantic love

The power struggle

The conscious partnership

Becoming conscious

Commitment

Discovering your partner

Creating a zone of affirmations

Defining your curriculum

Creating a sacred space

Portrait of two relationships

The exercises

Ten steps toward a conscious partnership

Exercise 1. your relationship vision

Exercise 2. childhood wounds

Exercise 3. imago workup

Exercise 4. childhood frustrations

Exercise 5. parent-child dialogue

Exercise 6. partner profile

Exercise 7. unfinished business

Exercise 8. the imago dialogue

Exercise 9. the commitment decision

Exercise 10. caring behaviors

Exercise 11. the surprise list

Exercise 12. the fun list

Exercise 13. positive flooding

Exercise 14. the behavior change request dialogue

Exercise 15. the holding exercise

Exercise 16. owning and eliminating your negativity

Exercise 17. zero negativity and reconnecting process

Exercise 18. visualization of love

Seeking professional help

Notes

Bibliography

About imago relationship therapy

Imago contacts

Additional relationship resources

Index

About the authors.